Annie, a little girl, the oldest of
eleven children, lived in a house on Douglas and Homan in the city of Chicago
with her family. She lived with her grandma, grandpa, mom, and her seven
brothers, and four sisters. It was in a nice neighborhood with lots of churches
and stores. The people in the neighborhood were very friendly. With her big
family and nice neighbors, there was never a dull moment. As she began to get older
going to school was getting harder, because Annie had to babysit her sisters
and brothers. As time went by, her mom would get sick, and she had to tend to
her sisters and brothers. She started to hang out with girls that were
different than the way she was raised. They even dressed different than the way
she did. Wanting to be accepted, by her peers, she started to hang out with
them.
She felt like she was being too
protected by her parents, so she left home and her mom was very angry! She
looked to her friends as her second sisters and brothers then she started to
like boys. She wanted to be accepted by her peers. That changed everything when
she visited home to see her mama. There were lots of arguments. She turned to a
boyfriend for comfort only to find out that he could not solve her problems.
She ended up getting pregnant, first problem. Second problem was that she had
to have baby’s pampers, milk and clothing. Her mother still needed help with Annie’s
brothers and sisters. She still needed Annie’s help with dressing and feeding them,
so Annie decided to go back home.
No matter what was going on,
Annie’s mama said she understood that it was hard to go to school with helping her,
but she that must still try to go. Her mother said that when she was a child
her parents needed her to help by going to work in the field to pick cotton, so
she did not have a chance to go to school. She wanted Annie to not to have a hard
life like that, because she had to work in the fields, going to the white
people’s houses to clean. Annie’s mother made her feel bad about having a baby
so young. She said she needed Annie’s help sometimes, but never intended for
her to stop going to school. By not listening, Annie found herself working,
taking care of two children, and a home. When she finally realized what she was
saying the damage was done, but what she said was still true. Now Annie had a
chance to talk to other young girls who are at home with their moms and want to
finish school.
Finally, she wanted young people to
know that there are many things that can get in the way when trying to go
school, but don’t stop trying to get a career in some field to support you.
Mama influenced Annie to keep trying even though many people have told her she
should give up. She now has enrolled in a Garfield Learning Center. Influenced by her mother, with the help of
many good teachers has made her feel better about her life. The staff at Family
Start Learning Center has helped her with my reading, writing, and math.